
Edith "Little Edie" Bouvier Beale (Photo courtesy of Getty Images)
During a recent conversation with one of my favorite Chicago editrixes, the topic was broached of what we wanted to be when we grow up. Astronauts? No. Firefighters? No. We both want to become Grand Dames. Eccentric, mismatched Lilly Pulitzer, Stole, and Needlepoint-wearing Grand Dames, butlers, coiffs and all. I particularly want to become a British Grand Dame who lives in the English countryside, drives an old, old car, wears Wellies, and is very sporting in my tweeds on my rambling estate that's seen better days. And I hope I'm just completely batty and crazy and wear inappropiately large jewels (most of which are fakes--the real stuff stays in the safe, of course). Kind of like a British version of Edith "Little Edie Bouvier Beale (pictured above).

This all started when I was little, watching the wonderful, glorious
Auntie Mame with my family. For those of you who have not seen this 1958 film starring Rosalind Russell, you must Netflix it this very instant. Auntie Mame is the grandest dame of them all--wildly eccentric and, to use a phrase I normally never utter, completely marvelous. Or should I say maahhvelous? For every one of her different fashion "rebirths" there is an apartment redecoration to match. As quickly as she adopts the rich colors and saris of India into her wardrobe, her Manhattan pad is transformed into an opulent temple filled with Hindu sculpture and vibrant metallic murals after ancient Indian art. I only hope I can ever possess the kind of innate style that goes well beyond the clothes on my back.
The colors and fashions in this movie are as exquisite and larger than life as the character of Mame herself and have become my inspiration for this season. I love the idea of combining the full out 1950s glam of Auntie Mame, with the shabby-chic quirkiness of Little Edie for something that's part posh, part mess, and completely of the moment.
This look is all about layering. Tights, gloves, long-sleeves, scarves, hats, dresses and lots of baubles. All at once. Think Miuccia Prada's collections for both Miu Miu and Prada for Fall 2007--full of layers, textures, and quirky color combinations.
Key accessories include large faux jewels (you can't go wrong with KJL, a master at classic glamour on a budget--even Jackie O was a fan), bags in bright, colored satin for night or structured mid-century styles for day, embroidered velvet slippers or modest heels, leather gloves (to the wrist or elbow), knee socks and silk scarves.
As far as wardrobe, match dresses with long sleeved shirts or turtlenecks underneath. Throw on tights (a thick-ribbed winter tight is perfect for the colder weather and very in sync with this look) and either a great (faux) fur, like the one below from Mango or short sleeved cardigan, like the black h&m version I've pictured. Swap the dress for a turtleneck sweater or prim blouse and skirt or add a cozy cocoon sweater (like the below Twelve by Twelve style) in place of the fur. Mixing and matching is key and will help you get a lot of wear out of each purchase. This look is based on creativity and innovation, so there are no missteps. Anything goes!
Hopefully these style suggestions with give you a jump start on emulating your favorite dame, maybe becoming your own favorite in the process.
The Jewelry
Clockwise from top left: Kenneth Jay Lane Snake Cuff ($300, available at www.maxandchloe.com), Banana Republic Pansy Pearl Necklace ($88, available at www.bananarepublic.com), Kenneth Jay Lane Topaz Royal Necklace ($285, available at www.maxandchloe.com), Kenneth Jay Lane Jade Quilted Earrings ($88, available at www.electricladyland.com), Kenneth Jay Lane Tiger Shell and Gold Turtle Pin ($88, available at www.electricladyland.com), Kenneth Jay Lane Simulated Pearl Necklace ($69, available at www.qvc.com), Banana Republic Encrusted Bib Necklace ($52, available at www.bananarepublic.com)
Dream Item
Verdura Maltese Cuff, starting at $14,000, go to www.verdura.com for more informationThe Bags
From left: Agent Velvet Frame Satchel by Betsey Johnson ($325, available at Nordstrom), Silk-satin Josephine Clutch ($98, available at J. Crew)
Dream Item
The Shoes
From left: Stubbs & Wootton velvet slipper ($325, at Stubbs & Wootton), Salvatore Ferragamo Vara pump ($290, at Neiman Marcus), New York T-Strap Character show by Leo’s ($32.65 at Discount Dance Supply)Dream Item
Miu Miu Patch Spectator Pump, $575, available at Neiman Marcus The Hats, Scarves, Gloves and Socks
Clockwise from top left: Sutton Studio Driving Gloves ($38, available at Bloomingdales), Long Silk Scenic Scarf ($45, available at J. Crew), Argyle Socks ($4.80, available at Forever 21), Portolano Cashmere Cable Hood ($125, available at Saks Fifth Avenue), Thigh High Socks ($5.80, available at Forever 21), Portolano Ribbed Fingerless Gloves ($88, available at Saks Fifth Avenue), Wide Ribbed Beret ($24, available at Urban Outfitters), Faux Fur Scarf ($28, available at Urban Outfitters).
Dream Item
Prada Knee-Highs (around $100, available at Prada)
The Clothes

Clockwise from top left: H&M Cardigan ($59.90, go to H&M to locate a store near you), Twilight Blues Ombre Cardigan ($62, available at Urban Outfitters), Dressage Plaid Swingcoat ($89, available at Twelve by Twelve), Penelope & Monica Cruz for MNG Zhivago Jacket ($219, available at Mango), Lux Liquid Turtleneck ($62, available at Urban Outfitters), Tie Neck Pintuck Top (was $88, now $44.99, available at The Gap), Penelope & Monica Cruz for MNG Hepburn Dress ($149, available at Mango), Heirloom Cropped Houndstooth Jacket ($69, available at Twelve by Twelve), Pleat Shift Dress ($19.80, available at Forever 21), Lux House of Yes Dress ($88, available at Urban Outfitters), Cottswald Cocoon Sweatercoat ($48, available at Twelve by Twelve) Dream Item

From Vera Wang's F/W 2007 Collection (visit www.verawang.com for more information)
Check out Harper's Bazaar's take on eccentric style in their October 2007 issue:
Harper's Bazaar's send-up of Grey Gardens style with Mary Kate as "Little Edie" and Lauren Hutton as "Big Edie," from the October issue.